He was like a Fossegrim

( Based on a true encounter with a man)

 It's not something that happens but it does. A woman finds a man attractive and there is subtle looking, giggling, shyness and nerves. Daydreams centred on that man. Wondering about the outcome of approaching him. Once done, a burst of fear and then anxiety with excitement sends her fleeing. It happens sometimes, but it gets harder than better. She just can't find it within herself to talk to him. Even saying "hello" takes courage she realises she doesn't have. But she goes home and thinks of him, swooning over him and daydreams again. "I will ask him, I will talk to him," she reminds herself.

As days turn into weeks, she still doesn't have it in her to go near him. The moment he looks at her, she runs off like a silly coward. Her thoughts go blank, her legs turn to jelly. Now she's too scared of being close to him. But she still wants him, that handsome strong fellow who can do his job well. She's a customer and he's staff. This is how she discovered his name. But after a few attempts for her caring mother to communicate with him, something goes wrong. Security is called and both women are warned to stop harassing the dude.

The lovestruck girl is in tears, comforted by her mum. "I didn't do anything wrong." "No you didn't, sweetheart." "Why did he call security on me?" "I'm not sure why."

Let us look at what she did, what could've caused him to feel harassed. It started with his long lingering looks and then him following her around, looking at her, watching her every move, appearing to be curious about her and then giving her attention. No words were said. And then her mum observed it, and felt like helping by telling the man "she likes you." He reacted with "Okay." He always looked at her, and he even looked at her mum that way too. Yes he did!

That was like a green light. So she passed him a written message with her number on it. She got a call from the guy's own manager who told her she was banned from ever going in the store. She was heartbroken. Tuning in, I learned that the man and his friends nicknamed the mother and daughter "sirens", "nymphs", "Lilith and Aphrodite". None of that made sense, because they didn't do anything to get given nicknames like that. 

Later I learned that both mother and daughter were simply banned until that man doesn't work there anymore. The manager explained in a recent meeting that mother and daughter obviously didn't mean him any distress and are nice and innocently trying to talk to this man. What was said wasn't said though. I found out through communicating with my guides that this man is quite dangerous towards women and everything made sense. Thinking on it now made mother/daughter remember the details of how this man seemed more creepy and stalkerish towards them in the store. The manager was simply protecting the women from this man working in their store. 

Some things have a lot more meanings.

Storm Valkyrie